Many of us were taught to put ourselves last, and as a consequence we attracted feelings of being unworthy and undeserving. As those feelings lodged within us, we continued to attract more life situations that had us feel more unworthy and not enough. You must change that thinking.
I sat and pondered at what the message was saying to me. What deep seeded message about the law of attraction was this one about? When I was a kid I was taught that ladies go first, you hold the door open for them and you offer up your seat for someone else, … because they deserved it more than I did. And it was the nice thing to do. Although the more I think about it, I begin to realize, “Well, I was taught that, but I never was good at following what my mom always said, and sometimes I didn’t give up my seat for someone else. I was tired and “I” deserved it.” Who would have thought such counter productive thinking one day would shine as a beacon using the law of attraction as a bright message?
Actually I think the message is that the law of attraction is kind of like a magnet. If you had one big black magnet you held and around were red and blue magnets. The red are bad, and blue are good. But somehow you seem to get some of both. The Universe doesn’t care, and sends you both … because you were thinking of both.
Each thought is you creating a magnet. Do you want to create good ones, or bad ones? The choice, ultimately, and always, is just up to you.